On February 14, 2015, I asked a pretty young woman out on a date. We had
met in July 2014 in Essiama in the Western Region. I was on an assignment there
and she was visiting her mother.
We
did not talk but I realised she was looking at me. She was a Facebook friend,
but I didn’t know. About 30 minutes later, she sent me a message on Facebook
asking whether I was the one she had seen. We got connected. Interacted briefly
and that was it.
We
started talking on February 9, 2015 when she published an article on why young
women should strive to achieve their dreams and not kill them because of men. I
liked that piece because, unlike the antagonistic and rebellious rants that
some often attach with feminism, this young female law student made her point
without pitching the sexes against each other.
On
Valentine’s Day of 2015, we were about the last to leave Aburi Garden. It was
getting dark and we sat on one of the garden benches.
“You
know we have to go back to Accra now,” I said.
“Yes,”
she agreed. “It’s getting late.”
“But
the light of the car on which we will depend to get back to Accra can only see
about a hundred metres away,” I said.
“Yes,”
she agreed. “But we have to have faith that the light will continue with us as
we travel along.” You mentioned the word “faith” without knowing that it was
exactly what I wanted to build on to drive home my point.
“I
want us to take the step of faith together in life. I know it won’t be easy, we
have not known each other for that long but we can still take a step of faith
together. I want to live the rest of my life with you.”
“Manasseh,
I don’t know what you will think of me. You know in Ghana, a lady would
normally say, I am going to think about it before I give an answer. But I have
nothing to think about.”
“So
are you saying yes?” I wanted to be sure.
“Yes,”
she confirmed what appeared to me like a dream.
On
August 20, 2016, we returned to Aburi Botanical Garden. This time, we did not
go alone. We went with a few friends and family members. We went there to
formalize what started right there in Aburi. A week earlier, we had an
impressive traditional marriage ceremony in Takoradi.
We
were honoured to have Rev. Dr. Mensa Otabil, the founder and General Overseer
of the International Central Gospel Church officiate the wedding. It was my
wish that he would officiate my wedding, a wish I thought would never
materialise. Then when I visited him early this year, I had the difficulty
putting that request to him. Fortunately, before I left, the issue of marriage
came up. And I said “Serwaa” would be happy to have him officiate our wedding.
“When
is it? I will be honoured to officiate your wedding,” Rev. Dr. Mensa Otabil
said. And it came to pass, that we were highly honoured by his presence. And
the presence of good friends and families.
The
power outage just before the start of the programme, the transition from the
national grid to the standby generator and the initial hitches in the sound as a
result of that alarmed me. Just as when we were being blessed, it started to
rain and with the thunder that accompanied it, I felt God had let us down. Why
would he keep the rain all this while and allow it to come at this crucial
moment?
But
he held it. Perhaps, he listened to the numerous prayers that were said. Or
rather, he was blessing the Bongo boy and pretty gem of Cape Coast and Half
Assini, with those showers.
At
the end of the day, we had the cause to give glory to the Almighty God. Mr. and
Mrs. Awuni are grateful for those who were able to make it to our memorable
day.
To
my numerous friends and followers who would have loved to come if I had opened
it up to everyone, I’m sorry. My wife and I wanted it private and solemn. I
have, however, uploaded a few of the pictures here of what happened in Aburi
when the glory of the gracious and merciful God shone on Manasseh and “Serwaa”.
Enjoy
what Moore Pictures captured. You can contact him on 0243 156 889. The
traditional marriage was shot by Joshua Sackey (0244 533 744).
It was here I proposed to “Serwaa” on February 14, 2016. |
Anas Aremeyaw Anas and Kwami Sefa-Kayi |
Parents of the bride (left) and parents of the groom(right) |
Gramophone Chorus was spectacular, filling the garden with melodious tunes |
On August 13, 2016, we had our
traditional marriage in Takoradi. Here are some of the moments before, during
and after the programme.
Credit: ManasseAzure.com
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